life isn't fair

Yesterday I got a text from Toby that I frankly am a little surprised I didn't get earlier.

"No fair that you got to see me in my wedding suit, but I don't get to see you in your dress until the wedding"

Well honey, life isn't fair, why would weddings be any different?

Yes, perhaps it isn't fair that I not only got to be there for him trying it on, but I was the one that everyone asked if I liked it. I am not sure anyone ever asked him what he thought about it.

There are a couple things other than the obvious lesson of life not being fair that he should keep in mind:

1. He is getting to wear a a light tan suit instead of a tux, no tie, and wear rainbow sandals instead of shoes. He should be counting his lucky stars.

2. I let him approve the dress I am wearing. The only thing I said was he couldn't see me in it till the wedding. Sure, I got to see him in his suit trying it on... but... well.... see the above lesson on life.

3. When he sees me in my dress that day, my hair will be done by a pro, I will have my make up perfect with fake eyelashes and nails done, and be cinched to perfection into my dress that has been altered multiple times to fit me like a glove. He will look... well pretty much like he does every day. Except with a really anxious look on his face. Guys have it so easy.

So see... life really isn't fair.